Thank you all for confirming what I thought. My mother has always had everything handed to her as a child. Very spoilt. She is now a very selfish, spolit woman who wants everything but not willing to work for it. I did speak to her yesterday after I saw her having a mega rant on Facebooks (very mature) about only getting half of the inheritance. The thing that really erks me is that she is still getting what she was always ment to get until my uncle passed.
When I called her she I helling in tears down the phone saying that she will never be able to buy a house and that us grandkids dont "need" it as we are young and earn good income so we have plenty of time to buy a house.
As I tried to explain to my mum is that we made a huge sacrifice a year ago and moved to a mining town so my partner can make some good money and set us up for the rest of our lives. Moving here was a huge sacrifice, we have no friends, no family around, and this town has nothing for a family who dont have a 4wd other than going to the pool (and there is only so many times I can do that over 6 weeks school holidays).
When my Nanna does pass away this will help us get out of this town and back closer to family and friends alot quicker than our plan.
I never expected anything from my family and my Nanna really surprised me when she choose to tell me this when I phoned to say Merry Xmas (something I dont even think my Mum did). It broke my heart that my Nanna has made sure that everyone has been looked after and she is so at peace with the fact that she knows she doesnt have too much longer on earth. She has paid for her plot and the whole funeral so there is nothing left for anyone to deal with. Proud that she is my Nan, just wish I didnt have such a spoilt brat for a mother :irked: Thanks everyone for the rant, feel alot better :o