Miss Kitty
Well-Known Member
Hello
I am a bit confused at the moment... I have met this fantastic man :Love: who I am enjoying getting to know. However there is a large age difference between us and he is a considerable amount older then me. He also happens to be very financially stable and a manager at where I work.
We have not even discussed how old exactly either of us are but just have bonded really quickly. I haven't really met anyone who understands me or what I want in life. But he just gets me. We are certainly not rushing into things as a bit awkward with work. I feel like I should feel it is wrong but I just don't. I like him! The other thing is, peoples opinions that I would be with him for simply his financial status. Now this is certanly not the case but ... :sad: I don't know how to feel, what to do.. My feeling is that we are both single, get on well and are not hurting anyone so what's the problem?
I know people may say 'well in 10 years time he'll be this age and you're be that age' etc. But then I'm inclined to say surely life is living for the moment and not looking that far ahead. Enjoy the current time.
I just don't know!!! Raah!!! :grr:
Do you think there is a stigma still attached to age gap relationships?
Thank y'all xxx
I am a bit confused at the moment... I have met this fantastic man :Love: who I am enjoying getting to know. However there is a large age difference between us and he is a considerable amount older then me. He also happens to be very financially stable and a manager at where I work.
We have not even discussed how old exactly either of us are but just have bonded really quickly. I haven't really met anyone who understands me or what I want in life. But he just gets me. We are certainly not rushing into things as a bit awkward with work. I feel like I should feel it is wrong but I just don't. I like him! The other thing is, peoples opinions that I would be with him for simply his financial status. Now this is certanly not the case but ... :sad: I don't know how to feel, what to do.. My feeling is that we are both single, get on well and are not hurting anyone so what's the problem?
I know people may say 'well in 10 years time he'll be this age and you're be that age' etc. But then I'm inclined to say surely life is living for the moment and not looking that far ahead. Enjoy the current time.
I just don't know!!! Raah!!! :grr:
Do you think there is a stigma still attached to age gap relationships?
Thank y'all xxx