Jade Partridge
Well-Known Member
Genuine question now, why does it bother you when people ask if your planning on getting married or planning children in your future?
The reason I ask is because I do that to clients all the time! They mention their bf and my next questions are those, I never thought of it being an upsetting question? I'll stop if it really is
I understand some people can't have children so I can understand they wouldn't want to discuss that but most of the time they'd just say how it is, they don't appear offended?
People ask me about getting married too n it never bothers me?
When People ask me about getting married I am ok with that, my other half never wants to marry, I do - but its okay, their reactions are funny when I tell them my bar bill would be damn high if i wanted him to propose.
However as someone with Issues on the baby making it depends when people ask me.... It has brought me to tears, sometimes I feel strong enough to explain that its not on the cards for me (without going into detail) other times it makes me want to punch them in the face as it really hurts like a knife in the heart.