No problem at all, its a horrible horrible situation and when it happens to both parents it's like someone up there is just being cruel. However what it does do is make you really think about what's important in life, and at the end of the day we are all going to the same place and nobody knows when. It really does force you to think about today.
I don't think anyone even doctors can accurately predict timescales, because it's so easy to obsess over it and think of it like a count down instead of making the most of every day. Life is a real challenge sometimes but your not alone There's a lot to be said about the power of the mind. I remember I watched a documentary on it once, and they were saying that sometimes when people are in accidents and end up in court over it, they only actually stop feeling the pain when they receive compensation and it's all over.
Like the other geeks have said, I also believe in complimentary therapies i.e. reiki and massage etc. I know there's controversy over massage because when we are taught they say oh no massage can spread cancer cells. According to my research, there's actually no evidence to suggest this, and more importantly massage boosts your immune system as well as having so many other benefits. There is so much out there for your Mum. And nutribullets are amazing, a great way to get some fruit and veg into you with very little effort, and so easy to clean.
Remember your not alone, sending lots of love xxx
Good point x
Situations like this really do make you realise whats important and what is not x
When my son was 5 weeks old they told me and my partner he might have a tumour in his kidney ,
My whole world fell apart and suddenly all those stupid things that you stress over daily are no longer important
And everyone comes together and its crystal clear whats more important in life x
Thankfully its turned out as an abscess
But i still had that feeling of what i thought what was going to be x
Send you all my love and stay strong
Keep your mum in positive mind set as i truly believe this helps xx