Okay I wonder what provoked this thread then !!! :o
I truly thought I WAS a professional until I joined this site. It very quickly became apparent that there was a huge gap in my knowledge base and that I had a hell of a lot to learn to even cover the basics on a sound footing.
I think now I can call myself a professional, but it's not through being a Timid Tina and sitting on the sidelines. To me knowledge is power, and how will you learn if you don't ask questions? I love learning, no matter what I do I research and learn all about it.
There are those who sit at the side and won't ask questions because they are so scared of getting things wrong or looking foolish, or dare I say it "being shot down in flames"! Those who are scared to ask are probably those who never put their hand up at school ... people always used to say to me, "go on Sarah you ask cos you're not scared". What I was scared of was remaining ignorant, of being confused because I didn't have things clear in my mind. Chances are if you're the one who asked the daft question then there will be 50% of the class who felt the same but were too scared to ask.
So are you one of those who always asks the questions, or are you one of those who says "so glad you asked that, cos I didn't know either but I was afraid to ask!"? If you do "pluck up the courage" to post and you don't get quite the answer you were looking for, it doesn't mean you're being ganged up against, it means you got something wrong. Learn from it and move on, but don't think you can't ask again.
So stop being Timid Tinas with more sensitivity than a sensitive flower in senstive land, if you get it wrong then at least you know you'll get the difinitive answer on here, and then you can help others in the future to learn - I know I have.