~Emmsybabes~
Well-Known Member
Well , what it say's in the title :lol:
with all the confidence boosting going on lately (most of it to me lol :hug: )
i was wondering do you think it improves with age generally ?
i know some people are born confident..
with me , i am a lot more confident now then even up until about 3 years ago ,
i would never ever disagree with anybody ,
i wouldnt open my mouth if i thought something
i never wanted to draw attention to myself , i wanted everyone to like me , i had very low self esteem , if anyone corrected me i would feel stupid.
whereas over the last few years i have noticed a change so much , for example in school i would never put my hand up if i knew an answer, i would always back out of any reading out loud ...hated drama, p.e ect...anything that involved putting myself in peoples faces ..
but now in college ...the hand go's straight up if i need to know something , i talk in group discussions , or most of the time start them lol
ill disagree if i have to ..and found I have a temper wooohooo (never knew i had one of them for a long time)
if i am corrected , i appreciate it now.and i liked to be liked , but i wont lose sleep if im not !
i find its always the younger girls who dont say a word , and us older ones who ask all the questions or offer the advice etc....
so what are your oppinions on this wether you are younger or older :green:
(if i have waffled slightly again , its coz i should be in bed now ..naughty naughty geeky !:smack: )
with all the confidence boosting going on lately (most of it to me lol :hug: )
i was wondering do you think it improves with age generally ?
i know some people are born confident..
with me , i am a lot more confident now then even up until about 3 years ago ,
i would never ever disagree with anybody ,
i wouldnt open my mouth if i thought something
i never wanted to draw attention to myself , i wanted everyone to like me , i had very low self esteem , if anyone corrected me i would feel stupid.
whereas over the last few years i have noticed a change so much , for example in school i would never put my hand up if i knew an answer, i would always back out of any reading out loud ...hated drama, p.e ect...anything that involved putting myself in peoples faces ..
but now in college ...the hand go's straight up if i need to know something , i talk in group discussions , or most of the time start them lol
ill disagree if i have to ..and found I have a temper wooohooo (never knew i had one of them for a long time)
if i am corrected , i appreciate it now.and i liked to be liked , but i wont lose sleep if im not !
i find its always the younger girls who dont say a word , and us older ones who ask all the questions or offer the advice etc....
so what are your oppinions on this wether you are younger or older :green:
(if i have waffled slightly again , its coz i should be in bed now ..naughty naughty geeky !:smack: )