Lunarstorm
Well-Known Member
I am livid right now and need to vent before I go and kill some supid f**king women who calls herself a mother.
At about 8.30 pm tonight, I was on my phone in my kitchen which is at the front of my house. I heard a child screaming and when I looked out of my window, there was a young boy on the floor in the road who had fallen off of his scooter. I waited a little bit before hanging up on my vets and going to help the little lad as I thought a parent or old sibbling would come to his aid but no one come.
There was no one out there with him with only two young girls, not much older than the boy right at the other end of the road. I helped the little boy up and could see his fingers where hurt, it looked like he had taken all the skin off (deep graze) off his finger tips. I told him he should go home and let his mummy look at his hands, to which he replyied "it's alright, I burned them on the cooker", I again said he really should go home just to let his mum check he was ok but he said it was ok as his mum told him to play outside. I could see he was younger than my own boys, so I asked how old he was, to which he replied 5!, I then asked where he lived and he told me number 2. Now I live in a long close with houses only on one side and I am at one end of the close and number 2 is rght at the other end, which is set back. There is no way that she could possibly see him from her house. I told him to go home, to which he wa;led off towards his house.
I came back inside and rang my vets back to see how my foster dog is doing after her surgery today and appoligised to them for having to get off of the phone. Next thing I know, this little boys mum turns up on my door shouting at me! WTF!! She starts going on about my shouting at her kid (which I didn't) and starts getting in my face. Now I don't loss my temper otend and hardly ever allow myself to get angry but I went mental at her.
Pointed out I had gone to help her child when he was hurt because he was screaming the close down and where the f**k was she! Her attituied was "he's a boy, thats what they do" (actual words she said). I then pionted out and as far as I'm aware, it's illegal to leave a 5 year old without a gardian, which she said it's not and that all the kids play in the close and he was playing with friends. When I told her at he was out there with no one and what would she have done if he was run over by a car instead of just fallen off his scooter(although I live right at the dead end people still drive up here too fast), as she was not looking after him, she started to walk away but I'd gone postal by this point. Told her if I see him out again without someone watching him, I'll be calling social services. She was saying well all the kids do it but when I said "well mine don't, I'm a responsible parent unlike you, I know where my kids are and I know they are safe. She soon shut up and walked off.
Now I called my husband at work as I was shaking with anger and needed to vent it before I did something I would regret when I calmed down, which turned out to be a bad idea as his addituide was "it's not our problem" which has really added fuel to my fire. He's told me not to get involved and not to call social services "as it's not our kids" and his attuide is one of he doesn'y want trouble coming to our door.
Now we moved her a few years ago after living next to the neigbour from hell and I understand where he is coming from but FFS no wonder there are kids roiting in this counrty with parents like that and no body does anything to stop the parents from neglecting thier dutie of care because of fear of reprizal. These parents don't give a fly rat rear end about thier kids and don't teach thier kids manners, repect or morals.
I'm torn between contacting SS and the housing assocatstion tomorrow or not. I really want to but husband will go mental and if I'm honest, I can't go through what I did at our last house again, so don't want to go looking for trouble.
HELP!!:sad:
Sam
At about 8.30 pm tonight, I was on my phone in my kitchen which is at the front of my house. I heard a child screaming and when I looked out of my window, there was a young boy on the floor in the road who had fallen off of his scooter. I waited a little bit before hanging up on my vets and going to help the little lad as I thought a parent or old sibbling would come to his aid but no one come.
There was no one out there with him with only two young girls, not much older than the boy right at the other end of the road. I helped the little boy up and could see his fingers where hurt, it looked like he had taken all the skin off (deep graze) off his finger tips. I told him he should go home and let his mummy look at his hands, to which he replyied "it's alright, I burned them on the cooker", I again said he really should go home just to let his mum check he was ok but he said it was ok as his mum told him to play outside. I could see he was younger than my own boys, so I asked how old he was, to which he replied 5!, I then asked where he lived and he told me number 2. Now I live in a long close with houses only on one side and I am at one end of the close and number 2 is rght at the other end, which is set back. There is no way that she could possibly see him from her house. I told him to go home, to which he wa;led off towards his house.
I came back inside and rang my vets back to see how my foster dog is doing after her surgery today and appoligised to them for having to get off of the phone. Next thing I know, this little boys mum turns up on my door shouting at me! WTF!! She starts going on about my shouting at her kid (which I didn't) and starts getting in my face. Now I don't loss my temper otend and hardly ever allow myself to get angry but I went mental at her.
Pointed out I had gone to help her child when he was hurt because he was screaming the close down and where the f**k was she! Her attituied was "he's a boy, thats what they do" (actual words she said). I then pionted out and as far as I'm aware, it's illegal to leave a 5 year old without a gardian, which she said it's not and that all the kids play in the close and he was playing with friends. When I told her at he was out there with no one and what would she have done if he was run over by a car instead of just fallen off his scooter(although I live right at the dead end people still drive up here too fast), as she was not looking after him, she started to walk away but I'd gone postal by this point. Told her if I see him out again without someone watching him, I'll be calling social services. She was saying well all the kids do it but when I said "well mine don't, I'm a responsible parent unlike you, I know where my kids are and I know they are safe. She soon shut up and walked off.
Now I called my husband at work as I was shaking with anger and needed to vent it before I did something I would regret when I calmed down, which turned out to be a bad idea as his addituide was "it's not our problem" which has really added fuel to my fire. He's told me not to get involved and not to call social services "as it's not our kids" and his attuide is one of he doesn'y want trouble coming to our door.
Now we moved her a few years ago after living next to the neigbour from hell and I understand where he is coming from but FFS no wonder there are kids roiting in this counrty with parents like that and no body does anything to stop the parents from neglecting thier dutie of care because of fear of reprizal. These parents don't give a fly rat rear end about thier kids and don't teach thier kids manners, repect or morals.
I'm torn between contacting SS and the housing assocatstion tomorrow or not. I really want to but husband will go mental and if I'm honest, I can't go through what I did at our last house again, so don't want to go looking for trouble.
HELP!!:sad:
Sam