Spray tanned a pervert!!!

[Strawberry chops]

Hi all,I just have to share this with you. Had a call today from a chap who wanted a spray tan, didn't mind as my husband's at home and so told him to come over.Did think it was a bit suspicious as he was travelling 40 minutes to get to me, anyway thought business is business.He asked if I would be doing it and I offered my husband to spray him as he is qualified,he wanted me to do it as he said he felt uncomfortable with a man.Asked me if it was ok for me to do him naked,said I didn't mind.BIG MISTAKE! Did the tan and he kept moving his hand over his bits so i thought he was nervous.Well at end of tan I dried him off with hose and told him to get dressed.He then asked for some barrier cream so he could put it on his bits! I was a bit in shock but told him it was fine and that he didn't need any.He insisted,then he started to touch his bits,massaging it all in! He asked me 3 times for more cream and carried on playing with himself. Told him to get dressed.I was messing with my gun,tidying up,didn't want to look.In the end I walked out of the room.
That's it now I'm not doing anymore men,put me right off! It's only my 2nd paying client aswell.he also wants a massage and his bits waxing.No flippin thanks.
Not very happy. Girls, please be careful,you never know.

 

[fanella]

don't get upset by him darling we have all had them and one day when you are sat at a table having a drink with other therapists at a show or seminar you will all start exchanging stories and have a good laugh about it. I know it makes you feel really uck right now but you were safe enough your hubbie was there and the feeling will go and you won't get another like that one.

 

[Emma Bagnall]

i once had an older chap for a spray tan.... i think he was confused by the advert... FANTASY TAN! LMAO! anyway, i dont think he was a pervert, but after i had sprayed his back, i asked him to spin round, and I was greeted by an excited male tail!!!!!!! he said it was the cold air and apologised. but it made me smile for the rest of the day.... poor man!:lol:

 

[mannipatch]

That is truely horrible. What a creep! I am sure your husband was mad!

 

[Strawberry chops]

Husband wasn't inpressed.We have had to try and laugh it off because at the end of the day what else can you do?What a saddo!
Do any of you ladies spray tan men and how do you find it?

 

[fanella]

Husband wasn't inpressed.We have had to try and laugh it off because at the end of the day what else can you do?What a saddo!
Do any of you ladies spray tan men and how do you find it?

thats the best way to treat him, for what he is - a joke- Don't either of you take too seriously

 

[collin]

I know it is difficult but try and laugh it off..unfortunatley these sort of people do sometimes manage to cause problems for you ladies which is a shame because the vast majority of male customers are very good to work on.
Dont let it knock your confidence..look at it as a professional and try and move forward but please don't be put off by this idiot..us guy's aren't all bad you know.

If I were you I would call him up...rebook him in for another spray but add some tabasco sauce in the mix..that should cure him :lol::lol::lol:

 

[fanella]

from experience I can tell you that wintergreen is very effective!!!! They tend not to re-book for some reason!

 

[sharon h]

I make all clients men or women wear undies. I dont mind ladies being topless but I do insist the bottom half covered. if that man would have been in my salon and was actually touching his privates i would have got my husband in the room or told him to get out and thrown his clothes out the door with him. I had a male client come for a massage and he was bottomless and he kept putting his hands under the towel, I was keeping an eye on what he was doing thankfully he did not do anything but from then on they have to wear bottoms and any touching in that area their treatment will be stopped and they can get out. I do not see why we should be made to feel uncomfortable in our own salons. I wont be uncomfortable ever again, they will be warned once and then thrown out naked!!! ha ha

 

[Bagpuss]

I cant believe he behaved this way knowing your hubby was home...

 

[collin]

from experience I can tell you that wintergreen is very effective!!!! They tend not to re-book for some reason!

or maybe some stinging nettle tea in the solution mix :lol::lol:

 

[Jen Smith]

or maybe some stinging nettle tea in the solution mix :lol::lol:

It wasn't you in your cat disguise was it Collin ... you seem to be happy to shake your tail about

:lol:

 

[collin]

It wasn't you in your cat disguise was it Collin ... you seem to be happy to shake your tail about

:lol:

Thankfully not but I did once wear a full bear outfit for my kiddies PTA event a few years ago so I do know why Tom Tom is shakin his stuff.

I do feel for the possible problamatic situations you ladies possibly face with certain types of male customers but luckily they are few and far between as most guy's are angels :hug:

I guess as a female you need to be very clear where the peramiters are before you take on male customers on what is and isn't allowable...maybe spraying a new male customer comming to you for the first time naked was perhaps a bit risky.

Take the upper hand with any customers you are a little concerned with...be informative on what is alowable (and not)when they book.

If its a new customer make sure a male or another member of staff or friend is also in the building..

If anyone starts "odd" behaviour..well imediatley stop the treatment..caution them and then if happy continue..if he still doesnt behave well chuck him out on the streets followed by his clothing....these sorts of guy's will run a mile if you take the driving seat...they get off by thinking they are in controll of you

I would highly recomend that you don't spraytan a newbie customer naked..untill such time as trust has developed between you.

Basically Gal's listen to what you say to your children when they go out and that way you will be much safer :hug:

 

[Strawberry chops]

Collin your dead right with hindsight I should have perphaps not done him naked but as I'm trying to built a client base I was trying to be accomodating!
He was from brum so all you girls in the west mid's be aware!

 

[Alimac]

mmmmmmm raljex in the spray tan cup springs to mind for this guy!!!!!!

 

[number1kitty]

I always get new male clients to pay up front prior to their appointment. I send their reciept and appointment card to there address.

I insist they need to bring this on the day otherwise we can not progress with the treatment. It means we have proof of addy if they ever tried anything!

I never do men alone I always make sure another member of staff are on the premises. If they are related to a female client then usually theres not much of a problem but I always air on the side of caution with new male clients.

If they insist on treatments on the day then I first ask them to pay before the treatment starts and do the consultation in the main reception. If the client is having a massage I ask them to strip down to undies, but I have had a few cases where they go naked, and I just tell them I am covering them with a towel as they wil catch their death. Soon puts a stop to any thoughts they may have! With tanning, I try to get them to wear disposables and ask them to move it about so that I can do a full tan without that pointing in my face!!!!!!

If they ever make any suggestions or movements that I am uncomfortable with, I remind them that this is a professional treatment and if they do it/say it again I will have no choice but to stop the treatment and ask them to leave!

All therapists put them selves at risk with any client. I have had some dodgy females too. We all have bad experiences just have to laugh it off!

Kate x

 

[Ruth Mills]

Nasty! I can't believe he asked you for barrier cream for his bits - especially after you'd already sprayed him! Sounds like he was trying to have a w**k in front of you! Definitely time to get big burly hubby to escort him off the premises!!!

 

[collin]

Collin your dead right with hindsight I should have perphaps not done him naked but as I'm trying to built a client base I was trying to be accomodating!
He was from brum so all you girls in the west mid's be aware!

hindsight is a wonderfull thing..hopefully you won't have this problem again...be safe and keep spreading the :Love:

 

[Susie H]

Please don't let it put you of spraying male clients hun, yes you had a bit of a shock with the pathetic perv but very few men are like that and so long as hubby is around you are safe, you just need to sit down with hubby and work out how to deal with type of thing ahead of time, its being caught flat footed that makes it unpleasant:irked:
:hug::hug: for you hun and I hope the creep didn't shake you up to much:hug:

 

[beck]

If I were you I would call him up...rebook him in for another spray but add some tabasco sauce in the mix..that should cure him :lol::lol::lol:

Love it....i would love to be able to do that!!