crystaltash
Well-Known Member
Hi geeks. So my problem is this.... I have been with my boyfriend for nearly 4 years. We have lived together for the past year and things are going ok. We have our ups and downs, but who doesn't, right?
Anyway, people, and when I say people, I mean clients, work colleagues and even some family members, are now thinking that I should be getting a ring on my finger quick-smart. It's all some clients ever talk about when they are in with me. And when they say, "still no ring?", they make me feel like something is wrong with me that he hasn't asked me yet.
My boyfriend and I are in no great rush to get married. We have talked about it and we both want to do it, but it's not something I'm desperate to rush into. Im not the kind of girl to force him or give him ultimatums. I want the proposal to come from him when he is ready cos then I'll know he really wants it. Until then I am happy to wait and go on as we are.
But my clients think otherwise. "maybe he'll do it on this date" "maybe he'll do it in New York" (we r going in sept). And then when they see me again and he hasn't done it, I can hear the pity and disappointment in their voices. Why are people making this their business? If I want to talk about it I will, but they don't seem to get the hint and keep going on and on and on at me. How do I get them to drop it? I'm not the kind of girl to tell people to mind their own business, so I was hoping u geeks could come up with some witty comments that I could use to get people to shut their gubs and just drop it!
Sorry for the rant, but it really is getting under my skin now and I'm actually starting to think there IS something with me!
Cheers guys.
Xxx
Anyway, people, and when I say people, I mean clients, work colleagues and even some family members, are now thinking that I should be getting a ring on my finger quick-smart. It's all some clients ever talk about when they are in with me. And when they say, "still no ring?", they make me feel like something is wrong with me that he hasn't asked me yet.
My boyfriend and I are in no great rush to get married. We have talked about it and we both want to do it, but it's not something I'm desperate to rush into. Im not the kind of girl to force him or give him ultimatums. I want the proposal to come from him when he is ready cos then I'll know he really wants it. Until then I am happy to wait and go on as we are.
But my clients think otherwise. "maybe he'll do it on this date" "maybe he'll do it in New York" (we r going in sept). And then when they see me again and he hasn't done it, I can hear the pity and disappointment in their voices. Why are people making this their business? If I want to talk about it I will, but they don't seem to get the hint and keep going on and on and on at me. How do I get them to drop it? I'm not the kind of girl to tell people to mind their own business, so I was hoping u geeks could come up with some witty comments that I could use to get people to shut their gubs and just drop it!
Sorry for the rant, but it really is getting under my skin now and I'm actually starting to think there IS something with me!
Cheers guys.
Xxx