Bonkers
Well-Known Member
Just wondered how everyone gets on with their ex partners and how they deal with things if they have children?
I have a 20mth old daughter and my ex has never really been involved either financially or taken any responsibility, In fact its often been 6 mths between visits, Recently I have come to the conclusion that if he wont pay anything to help me then he can start taking her out and being some sort of a father as I have no life and struggle to fit in treatments as well as being a full time single mother and dont get any time to myself or to socialise, getting babysitters is a nightmare, so now i think he should help out.
The thing is I cannot stand him and often when in his company have ally mcbeal thoughts of things happening to him such as cranes appearing and tipping him into bin or trains popping out of nowhere and mowing him over! etc etc. (im not a psycho honest he just winds me up by breathing)
Anyway yesterday I managed to spend 4 hrs in his company without saying anything nasty although i did bite my tongue so much im sure its now full of holes! And I think my daughter enjoyed his company.
Cheeky idiot he is! he even tried to get me into bed when she had a nap!!! Also spent time flirting with me to which I had to laugh and say as if! he even asked what colour thong i was wearing as my trousers were white although not really see through (quite thick material) and my thong was white for the record!! I think he still thinks he has some sort of rights to me although i have made it clear he did the dirty on me and it would never happen again (i gave him 3 chances)
Anyway how do others deal with their ex partners?
I have a 20mth old daughter and my ex has never really been involved either financially or taken any responsibility, In fact its often been 6 mths between visits, Recently I have come to the conclusion that if he wont pay anything to help me then he can start taking her out and being some sort of a father as I have no life and struggle to fit in treatments as well as being a full time single mother and dont get any time to myself or to socialise, getting babysitters is a nightmare, so now i think he should help out.
The thing is I cannot stand him and often when in his company have ally mcbeal thoughts of things happening to him such as cranes appearing and tipping him into bin or trains popping out of nowhere and mowing him over! etc etc. (im not a psycho honest he just winds me up by breathing)
Anyway yesterday I managed to spend 4 hrs in his company without saying anything nasty although i did bite my tongue so much im sure its now full of holes! And I think my daughter enjoyed his company.
Cheeky idiot he is! he even tried to get me into bed when she had a nap!!! Also spent time flirting with me to which I had to laugh and say as if! he even asked what colour thong i was wearing as my trousers were white although not really see through (quite thick material) and my thong was white for the record!! I think he still thinks he has some sort of rights to me although i have made it clear he did the dirty on me and it would never happen again (i gave him 3 chances)
Anyway how do others deal with their ex partners?