Well, Geeg, I understand why you are feeling this way... God knows, only yesterday, I said, and I'm really sorry for the words I'm gonna use, "If another creep calls me today and asks whether I do massage with happy endings, I swear I'll pull out my shotgun (which I don't have, of course :green
and pierce his butt, so he'll really feel the Earth moved".
Because I was really annoyed by repeated and repeated and repeated calls from such people.
No matter what I said, what I wrote on my web site, no matter whatever. They just do. And some don't. And 10 minutes later, my rant was over, and I knew, even if I really did pierce someones butt, there would still be another one with such idea. And more I concentrate on those, the more they will call. So when another one called, I simply laughed, said, "No, thank you for calling, bye".
When I asked my reiki teacher, why do people do/say/ask things that we feel as wrong, he just said, "People do things. End of story". And I said, "well, their story is often in my face". And he said again, "People do things. THEIR problem. Do it as you feel it's best. If you can help, then do. And you cannot help ones who doesn't want to be helped, so let them. Their problem.
The sad thing is, that there is always someone who will give our industry a bad name, and clients are often inocent collaterals. But then again, there are us who take our business and products seriously. Underline is on,
we do exist. And are doing our best. In our salons, on places like salongeek.
People just do things. So I know that you are annoyed by repeated questions that pop on this forum. "Do I really need the Minx lamp?" "Do I really need that xy product/procedure that manufacturer recommended?" "Will the universe collapse if I mix brands?" Well, it won't. Because, as we all know, anything can be done with anything, but that anything won't work/last/look as it is supposed to. Sometimes I get such urge to yell, "Press that darn search button, for God's sake!!!!", or, "You think, my dear, that you can do anything with anything to your clients. OK. Then go and dye your hair with water colours and wait the joy of the result you'll get."
And some of them will learn the lesson. When they lose clients, when they get bad name, when that water colour on their heads gives them such great result. Again, their problem. Anyone in their right mind will look at the successfull people in our industry and understand what is that made them so successfull:
1. Constant learning
2. QUALITY product that they stick to, because messing with it would mess up the quality of their service, and
3. Work, work, work.
You helped and influenced so many people, Geeg, and so did others on this site. And I can understand if you, or anyone in expertise, sometimes feels like he's throwing pearls before pigs. But you know, even if some of those pink nosed fellows missed to pick up that FREE pearls of wisdom, there are much more of others that DID pick it. And used it well. Think of those, Geeg :hug:.