Where do I go from here?

[thinkpink2008]

Geeks I'm at a loss. I got a phone call this morning from my best friends mom telling me she'd been killed in a car crash at a notorious black spot by me the early hours of this morning. I'm honestly heartbroken and don't know where to go from here. I can't believe the girl who's been my best friend for 15 years is gone just like that. At just 26 years old, she was only my bridesmaid 6 months ago. She's also leaving two kids behind.
There's a lot of unanswered questions at the moment but I know the car hit a tree and she was thrown from the car and died instantly. It just seems such a waste, I lost my brother in 2008 and its brought it all back. It's like losing a sister, I've been to see her family and will be there for them over however long it takes but I just feel crushed by it all and at a loss what to do!

 

[KayaPapaya]

Sorry for your loss x

 

[Bingfairy]

Im so sorry for your loss! I cant even begin to imagine what you or her family must be going through! Xxxx

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[80's Girl]

So sorry to hear your news. I don't really have any experience of this situation but didn't want to read and run. As you'll know the grieving process will take time. Take one day at a time. Would it help to write a letter to your friend who has passed putting down your feelings and happy memories?

 

[melissab]

So sorry for your loss. Xx

 

[Only-me]

Bless your heart...
No words will ease your pain.. You will have a million what if and why questions. Thinking of you... One day at a time xx

 

[rachael204]

So sorry to hear of your loss - nothing I can say will make it any easier. Just be glad that you knew her and be there for her family. Thinking of you xxx

 

[leannelily]

Jesus... I cant even begin to imagine what you are going through right now! It must be soo tough! But stay strong, and just focus on celebrating on the good times! I lost a friend this year in April & talking and laughing about the fun times makes it better!
Hugs xx

 

[Lynne Baker]

This is where you go...

Cruse Bereavement Care

 

[dandelionpoppy]

I'm terribly sad for you.

 

[Victoriabar]

I'm sending love and hugs xx
Having lost my dad and then my cousin both in car accidents I can understand your pain. Cry, scream, shout and talk if you need to x

 

[zonebeuauty]

This is so tragic ....got tears in my eyes.
Hugs and more hugs hunny time is the greatest healer,x

 

[NourishedNails]

Sorry for your loss xxx

 

[Sapphire nails]

Sorry for your loss. I know what your going through my dad died 4 months ago out of the blue, there was nothing wrong with him. I think losing someone with no warning is the hardest, I can't really give advise on where to go from here and they say time is a healer in which I'm still debating but all I can say is some how you will get through, just try and focus on all the good times you had (that's helped me)

god bless x

 

[thinkpink2008]

Thanks for all your replies. It still doesnt feel real to be honest. I think its started to really affect the children now so i suppose all i can do is be there at the moment. Her mom actually thanked me yesterday for being the only person whos been there with her through thick and thin so i really appreciated that and my sister was out with my friend just two weeks ago and she said the same to her so i can take that as a comfort that my friend felt that way too. All i can say is go home and hug those who you love and make sure they know exactly how u feel about them xxx

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[PinkSwoon]

Oh no that's awful news to receive. Massive love & hugs to you, hope the little ones will be ok, stay strong xx

 

[Nails<3]

So sorry to hear your horrible news. You sound ever so strong and supportive. So sad x x x

 

[happyfeet]

Such sad, sad news. Thinking of you and your friends family xxxx

 

[umvemve]

I am so sorry.

 

[Nats10]

Sorry for your loss xxxx